When Someone Belittles You

Have you ever felt your self-esteem being devastated after the belittlement done by someone? Do you find yourself unconvinced when someone tries to ‘downgrade’ you despite your inner conflict towards what has been said?

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‘Start Beautifully’, proceed joyfully, end wonderfully

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If you are always wondering on how to get things right, then I would sincerely share with you the concept of a ‘good start’. I profoundly believe whenever we want to perform something, despite easy or tough, as long as we have a beautiful start and know to enjoy the process; things will most likely be ended wonderfully. Just imagine you have prepared deliberately before initiating a project in your life, I am sure you don’t want to jeopardize your effort with a bad start, right? In this article, I will be raising three examples to reinforce the statement here. Read More »

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The 90/10 Rule

One of our recent toastmasters meeting themes is ‘90/10 Rule’, which has inspired me to produce this article. In fact, this rule is closely related to ‘positive thinking’. It has been secreting in us for very long time, but we may not fully adopt it in our life. You may have been plagued by some soul-destroying problems, then your buddy comes to soothe you by saying “Hey guy, be optimistic, things will turn better if you can react in a positive manner.” Sounds familiar? That is what the 90/10 rule all about. It does not refer to a complicated rule or formula. It is purely a simple concept which will change our life if we follow. Read More »

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